'She was a miraculous, sensational woman, and loved by so many' - Tributes to Ripon swimming teacher Sylvia Grice, who has died aged 90
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Mrs Grice taught an estimated 250,000 children to swim over nearly 50 years, with hundreds leaving personal tributes to a woman loved by the city's residents.
Mrs Grice’s effect on the Ripon community was described by the vicar as “miraculous”, during a service filled with poetry and dedications to the years she spent serving the community.
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Hide AdMrs Grice was offered a civic funeral. However, her family wanted a personal service as despite her big impact, Mrs Grice was ironically said to be a private person.
A former Barnardo's girl, she spent her school years living at “the Palace” on Palace Road.
A tomboy through and through, three year old Mrs Grice fell out of a tree and spent four years in hospital.
Her daughter, Helen Mackenzie, said: “She had a really rough start, one which could have left her full of resentment.
“Somehow, miraculously, she was the opposite.
“Full of life, warmth and laughter.”
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Hide AdHer two daughters' early talent for swimming inspired her to qualify as a teacher, after which she taught generation upon generation.
Mrs Mackenzie said: “Her teaching was described as having a ‘kind ferocity’.
“She had standards, respect for students, and inspired them.
“When she died there were more than 700 comments saying how she taught their entire family to swim, it was incredible.”
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Hide AdMrs Grice's Swedish friends, who flew over for the service, spoke of the day she welcomed them to the city - more than 40 years ago.
They said: “She made us feel like family in just seconds, and a lifelong friendship emerged.
“She was extraordinary.”
Mrs Mackenzie said: “That's the nature of her effect.”
A dedication written by local journalist and family friend, Tim Flannagan, described a woman who made the most of every moment, with “unlimited generosity”.
A book of photographs presented to Mrs Grice by her granddaughters, Laura and Amy, for her 90th birthday, showed a woman constantly smiling, even through years of physical pain.
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Hide AdMrs Mackenzie said: “She somehow managed to have fun through the pain.
“Could be that generation – she just got on with it.
“She was pure attitude.”
Mrs Grice later became renowned for hosting garden parties which raised funds for a number of charities to which she remained loyal.
She also spearheaded a campaign to raise £10,000 for two local boys who had died of meningitis.
Mrs Mackenzie said: “Mum had a remarkable life, she accomplished so much that we wanted to celebrate that.
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Hide Ad“She received an MBE, and was also granted ‘The Freedom of the City’ - which she was personally more proud of.
“She was always affectionately known as ‘Dame Slyvia’.
“She could never understand, as an ordinary woman, never realising she changed the lives of everyone who met her.”
Mrs Grice taught Olympic gold medalist Jack Laugher, who attended the service as a friend.
Mrs Mackenzie said: “She just loved being around people and had this infectious laughter which was joyous.
“She had that ‘joie de vivre’ - joy of life.
"She was cheeky, driven, sunny, enthusiastic, honest, gutsy, feisty, she was so many things.
“But mostly, she was a miraculous, sensational woman, and loved by so many.”